Thursday 8 April 2010

妈妈的感触

This post is written by my mother.

从妈妈的生病到她的逝世,我深深地体会到“人生不如意之事,常之八九”这句话的含义。一个人的一生中,不知要伤心欲绝和痛苦难耐多少次。我指的伤心事是,当亲人逝世(你能想象有几次吗?父母、叔伯婶姨、朋友、兄姐。。。)离你而去,指的痛苦事是,当你病入膏肓时身体的煎熬,而不是和朋友争吵、失去工作、考试不及格等的“芝麻绿豆”小事。

我想,如此的人生,难怪有些人需要精神寄托,也可能就是这个原因,才有那么多不同的宗教被发起。本来有宗教信仰是好的,只可惜,很多人用宗教的名义来干不道德的事,更可笑的是,有些人利用宗教杀了人后,还振振有词说“杀人是为了要警戒人们,杀人是不对的!”

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

天下无不散之筵席。 Must move on once recover from the pain. Importantly, we must make a differnce to people we love while we are alive (like your mum). Religion is made use of by people who have their own agenda, this is not what it originally meant to be. Anyway, hope you will be okay soon. Take care.

Anonymous said...

Thanks Anonymous for your kind words. If there is really a god out there, I believe he is benevolent and does not expect anything from us humans. It's humans who misunderstand him and portray him as something else. Even any mother (I would say most, with few exceptions) can give unconditional love to her kids, what's more an omnipotent and so-called perfect god? I think people who are religious need to have "blind" faith in some sense.

Regards,
LJ's mum

Anonymous said...

Agreed. :)